Love Lost

People get married now for the sake of doing it. They don't understand all the hard work that it take to keep it strong and healthy. Your marriage is like a plant you have to plant the seed in good foundation and give it sun and  water to grow. It's very time consuming but if you put the work in you will get something beautiful out of it.


Is it to much to ask for to want to be touched,
Held and caressed
Is this the new us
Is this really as good as it's suppose to gets
Is this the prize for giving your time 
And commitment
Your hart is thirsting for love
You soul starved for intimacy
"Tell me
When did it become 
Not enough
For
Me
To just be
Me"
You usually don't ask but give it a try 
For this is what Dr. Phil said is the biggest reason why
More and more marriages end in divorce
Because the lack of stepping in and changing the course
So instead of bowing out like a coward and run
Choose to stand up for the change that will come

P.Y.T.

Teen pregnancy is growing at a rapid rate and it has to be a reason why. So I have been thinking! Here's what I came up with....
Our young ladies are lost and in need of love. We live in a world today where physical contact no longer exist. We talk via text and email no one ever really picks up the phone and dials a number. I know I don't I use speed dial and if for any reason I lose my phone the only number I know is my sister.  Did you know you can check if your child made it home with your security system on your cell. It"s an application for it. I feel like our girls are so physically and emotionally detached that the act of having sex is so meaningless to them. To hell with a kiss, most of them have had sex before even experiencing a real kiss.We have to get back in touch with one another, most importantly our young girls. We have to let them know how special they are, and how special your first time is. How that moment should be shared with someone you love very much and loves you in return. We have to instill in them how a real man should and will treat you. We have to let them know that teen pregnancy is not the right choice for them or the unborn child. We have to get back in touch with our young ladies.

 P.Y.T.
Pretty young thing just barely 18
The world say you are an adult who can decide for herself
But your mind is not able to comprehend
The complexity of a wolf dressed in sheep skins


He tells you he loves you and you think it's real
So you lie down beside him and close the deal
But all of his actions after fact
Force your hart to appeal
So you stop to recap
"This has to be real
Why would he say these things
Send for me 
Lay with me
Tell me it will all be okay"
But you ignore the signs and instead of leaving you stay

Some time has gone by 
And here we are now
You,
Making a life changing decision that took two
Two to embrace one another
Two to lay with one and other
Create another
Life.
All by yourself
Now you have to decide how to continue on with this emotional ride
All the people you let down
"How can I tell them, what will they say"
So you wait and wait as the days fade away

You finally swallow your pride and come clean
PUSH
The nurse screams
6lbs 9ozs 
You now know what unconditional love truly mean.